3 indispensible attitudes for church growth

 

Vital Apparel for Future…

 

I saw an add on TV the other night… It said, “We have the vital apparel for future.”

This morning when I was praying this add came to mind… Here’s how God laid it out to me…

 

Put on these three vital attitudes for the next season:

#1 Patience…

Its one of the fruits of the Spirit of God (Gal.5:22). You’ve heard it time and time again… “Patience is a virtue.” It seems we know it’s a virtue we want exercised towards us- we just don’t want to exercise it toward others. But going into the future it is one we need to learn. Kid’s programs demand patience. Youth programs demand patience. Small groups demand patience. Every relationship- if it is to be a Godly one- requires patience. 

A man’s wisdom gives him patience;

it is to his glory to overlook an offense. Prov.19:11

*Three things to remember about patience:

#1- Patience doesn’t come naturally…

Patience is something we need but we do not naturally have it. Note that patience comes from wisdom (which comes from God). If you want God’s wisdom you have to ask and believe God for it.

#2- Patience means over looking an offence…

The very definition of patience is the ability to over look an offence. Patience is not asking people not to offend you or to behave in ways that don’t bother you… You will be offended- patience is the wisdom to over look it. (no matter what size / age the offender is)

#3- Patience is beneficial to the one who has it…

He says it is to your glory to over look an offence. In the original language the words there for “over look” are to look beyond. Though you are bothered or “bugged” by what someone says or does- you know the value of looking beyond it. Your life is about more then just being bugged. I think we all have wants and wishes for our church and our lives- I wonder just how often we ourselves stunt they growth we so desperately want? 

 

God’s word puts the burden of patience on you. Patience is important to growth… both the growth of your church and your personal growth.

 

#2 Faithfulness…

Yes that’s right, it is another fruit of the Spirit (Gal.5:22). Neither an individual nor a Church can grow with out faithfulness. Faithfulness means being there and being committed. Faithfulness is not a chore or a demand- it’s a desire that is placed in us to grow. Jesus identified the “greatest commandment”: Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. Deut.6:5

You are faithful and committed to what you love most. Have you ever thought about the things that you are most faithful to? The things or people you are most faithful to are the ones you love most.

I have a strong desire to be faithful to God and that desire grows with my love for Jesus. The more I know Him and experience His faithfulness to me- the more faithful I am to Him and His Church… the higher He climbs on my “love list” and the more consistently He stays at the top.

 

Neither an individual nor a Church can grow with out faithfulness.

  

#3 Optimism…

Yeah, I know, it’s not a Bible word. But I like it. Really it’s just another word for faith. Optimism means having a positive outlook. Believing the best. Jesus was the most optimistic person who ever lived. He was optimistic even when being crucified. He talked about forgiveness and finishing His work while on the cross! That is a positive outlook- amen? That’s the kind of faith-optimism we need to have going into the future. Change is part of life and is necessary- you need to be positive about it. An optimistic attitude is contagious (so is a negative one). The Bible says that there was a town or two where Jesus couldn’t do many miracles (Matt.13:58). You know why? They were negative. They told one another why He couldn’t do it and why they didn’t believe it would work. It would have been just as easy to say, “hey this is gonna be great- let’s get behind this and give it a good try.” You know, Jesus can do miracles anytime anywhere- but don’t you think He’s apt to give more to a place and people that want them?

 

Faith- optimism is an important attitude because your attitude will either make or break you and North Park Church